Thursday, September 20, 2012

Party Time



We celebrated the big 1-0 with an awesome cake!
One of the main challenges facing kids on the autism spectrum has to do with socialization. They may not be able to develop the social skills necessary to act appropriately in certain situations. This may often lead to small peer groups and lack of involvement in typical activities. One of the greatest joys I have had since my son started at a school with children who have similar social issues is being able to finally let Andy experience some of the joys of childhood. I remember the first time we got an invitation to a classmate’s birthday party, it was so exciting! It was so sweet to see the children interacting beyond the walls of Celebrate the Children. The joy they bring to each other really made my heart melt. I knew I’d have to do the same for Andy.

So for the past three years I have hosted birthday parties, but not just for the kids, the party serves double duty. Not only do the children have a great time but the parents get to connect. Since CTC isn’t a public school, families are spread out among 3 states, many of us about an hour from school. Sometimes it’s just not possible for weekend play dates, and with today’s hectic lifestyles we simply don’t have the time.  So, I set up birthday parties near Andy’s school, which is within a decent driving range for everyone, though I admit that it is not very convenient. The past 2 years we have enjoyed bowling, it’s fun to watch the kids play, the parents relax (or some were bowling too!) and for everyone to feel comfortable with the people they were around. I treasure the memories of the parties we have had and been to and always look forward to the next time! 
Happy Birthday Boy!!!

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